Saturday, January 23, 2010

MY 2009 IN PICTURES

Here's a brief and sporadic pictorial of my 2008. It's hit and miss, and purposefully non-conclusive. If a key happening is found to be left out, it's not intentional...



1.1.9 - Winter Classic



1.1.9 - Downtown with Meg.



1.2.9 - Promotion



1.3.9 - Girlfriend.



1.28.9 - Snow Day at Work.



2.1.9 - Super Bowl Party.



2.14.9 - Valentine's Day.



2.22.9 - Bulls Up Close.



3.5.9 - Driving to Arch Madness.



3.9.9 - Big Ten Burgers at Work.



3.13.9 - In the Tunnel with the Illini.



3.14.9 - Grainger at the Ice.



3.23.9 - Chris Roberts' 3/4-court Shot in the CIT.



4.2.9 - Jay Cutler a Bear.



4.9.9 - Indians' Opening Night.



4.15.9 - New Car.



4.21.9 - The Long Fall Back To Earth.



4.30.9 - Bulls 128 Celtics 127 in Game Six.



April - Playoff Beard.



5.11.9 - Blackhawks Advance to the Western Conference Finals.



5.24.9 - Dan's Best Man.



6.5.9 - 30th Birthday Party.



6.6.9 - Snow Cones with Savannah.



7.3.9 - Six Months.



7.5.9 - The Music Man and Fireworks on the Hill.



7.19.9 - Louisville Trip for Bats Game with the Skinners.



7.29.9 - Tractor Pulls are Fine.



8.1.9 - Scene of Proposal Scouting Trip.



8.3.9 - First ESPN Appearance.



8.13.9 - Propose.



8.15.9 - At Bryce and Jana's Wedding.



8.22.9 - State Fair.



8.30.9 - Starry Night in Trafalgar.



9.5.9 - Full Circle. Indians' Finale.



9.6.9 - Our Symphony On The Prairie Debut.



9.12.9 - Engagement Party at Don Pablos.



10.4.9 - At Wrigley for the Season Finale.



10.14.9 - In Nashville for Dave Ramsey's Affiliate Executive Counsel.



10.26.9 - The Melting Pot.



10.30.9 - Autumnal Party.



11.2.9 - Engagement Photo Shoot.



11.10.9 - Hello Hurricane.



11.13.9 - First Brunswick Stew Since Moving to Indiana.



11.26.9 - Thanksgiving.



12.4.9 - Candles and Carols.



12.10.9 - Sell Oldsmobile.



12.13.9 - Christmas At The Zoo.



12.24.9 - Christmas Eve Picture.



12.25.9 - Christmas Day.



12.31.9 - New Years Eve Prayer.

Sunday, July 5, 2009

2009 MLB All Stars

Here's how the rosters should look. These are the most deserving...


C Brian McCann
1B Albert Pujols
2B Chase Utley
3B Mark Reynolds
SS Hanley Ramirez
OF Raul Ibanez
OF Ryan Braun
OF Adam Dunn


Tim Lincecum
Dan Haren
Matt Cain
Jason Marquis
Chad Billingsley
Johan Santana
Josh Johnson
Heath Bell
Francisco Rodriguez
Francisco Cordero
Jonathan Broxton




C Joe Mauer
1B Miguel Cabrera
2B Aaron Hill
3B Evan Longoria
SS Derek Jeter
OF Ichiro Suzuki
OF Carl Crawford
OF Torri Hunter


Roy Halladay
Zach Greinke
Edwin Jackson
Kevin Millwood
Felix Hernandez
Jered Weaver
Mark Buehrle
Joe Nathan
Mariano Rivera
Jonathan Papelbon
George Sherrill

MY 2008 IN REVIEW

Here's a brief and sporadic pictorial of my 2008. It's hit and miss, and purposefully non-conclusive. If someone feels a key happening was left out, it'll be alright...






Downtown with Meg.






Drive to Peoria and Bradley game with Joey.








Drive to Bloomington to see Walk Hard.






Eat at Gray's for first time since moving back.






Mustache March.






Fly to Albuquerque.





Drove to Arch Madness.






Wrigley Opening Day with Dad.






First of many Indians' Opening Nights with Meg.






Earthquake in Indiana.






Drive to Wrigley with Joey.






Mighty Flood of June.






Hanging it up at Grainger.






Reunion show with Jason.






Cubs trade for Rich Harden.






Tractor pulls are cool, right?






Meg and I drive to Peoria. See Ryno for first time.






Olympics.






Jamie, Jackie, and I drive back to Illinois.






Cubs game in Cincy with Meg.






Bears over Colts in Lucas Oil opener.






Full circle. Indians finale.






Welcome To Autumn party.






Finally a trip to Smokey Bones.






Ping-pong with Savannah.






A real neat guy gets President.






Candles and Carols with Megan. 19 degrees that night.






Drive to Nashville with Megan for no reason.






Christmas Eve.






The waning moments. I thought it'd never end.

Monday, June 29, 2009

2008 In Review

Time for my year-end lists... The entries might not be in any particular order within the categories.


TOP BOOK READ
Total Money Makeover - Dave Ramsey


MOVIES IN THEATER
Semi Pro
Leatherheads
U2 3D
Four Christmases
Madagascar II


DINING EXPERIENCES
The Cheesecake Factory (2.13)
Pipers Cafe and Grand Manor (4.16)
Fujiyama (5.31)
Pappadeaux (9.6)
The Polo Club (12.24)


SPORTING HIGHLIGHTS
Attend Cubs Opening Day with Dad (3.31)
Bulls win draft lottery (5.20)
Cubs trade for Rich Harden (7.8)
See Ryne Sandberg in person at Chiefs' game (8.2)
Bears ruin Lucas Oil Stadium opener (9.7)


SONGS OF THE YEAR
"Kingdom of Comfort" - Deliriou5?
"Equally Skilled" - Jon Foreman"
"Missing Something" - Autovaughn
"Falling For You" - Leeland
"Yours" (with new verse) - Steven Curtis Chapman


ALBUMS RELEASED
Kingdom of Comfort - Delirou5?
Viva la Vida - Coldplay
Day & Age - The Killers
Jon Foreman - Spring and Summer
Opposite Way - Leeland


MOST LISTENED-TO CDs DURING THE YEAR
Kingdom of Comfort - Delirou5?
Viva la Vida - Coldplay
Opposite Way - Leeland
Sam's Town - The Killers
Never Going Back to OK - The Afters


TOP RANDOM PEOPLE I TALKED TO THROUGH MY JOB
Frank Caliendo
Dan Patrick
Eric Gordon
Helio Castronevez
Marty Brennaman


MUST-HAVE PRODUCT DISCOVERY
ACT Restoring Mouth Wash


VERSE OF THE YEAR
1 Peter 5:10


LYRIC
"Don't let anyone say that it's just a game / For I've seen other teams and it's never the same / When you're born in Chicago you're blessed and you're healed / The first time you walk in to Wrigley Field." - Eddie Vedder ("All The Way")

"I will be patient as the Lord / Punishes me for the wrongs I've done against Him / After that He'll take my case / Bringing me to light and to justice / For all I have suffered / And both of His hands are equally skilled at ruining evil / Equally skilled / At judging the judges / Equally skilled / At administering justice..." - Jon Foreman ("Equally Skilled")

"I've walked the valley of death's shadow / So deep and dark that I could barely breathe / I've had to let go of more than I could bear / And questioned everything that I believe / But still even here / in this great darkness / A comfort and hope come breaking through / As I can say in life or death / God we belong to you." - Steven Curtis Chapman ("Yours" [Maria version])

"You could stay awhile longer / We could stay up and talk about last summer / We could go down to the water / Watch the sunset going under... / You've got nothing I could ever hold against you / I got fatal flaws to call my own / Please don't go, please don't leave me alone / A mirror is so much harder to hold / I met a man who's looking for perfection / Sad he never met a girl who's good enough / His eyes are getting old, like they'd love to love again / Such a lonely man, such a lonely man..." - Jon Foreman ("A Mirror Is Harder To Hold")


QUOTE
"The people who want to make money get paid for what they know. ...if you don't embrace the rate of change by growing your brain, you're going to be left standing on a dusty road with no money in your pocket. You are going to have to be a reader to win. You will be lower income if you're not a reader, if you just used to be a reader...I don't care if you got your Master's degree."-- Dave Ramsey.


MOST DREADED PHRASE OF THE YEAR
"In the new environment..."


OTHER MAIN HIGHLIGHTS
New Year's Eve prayer with Megan at church.
Driving to Bloomington late at night in the snow with Megan.
Walking into Wrigley Field for the first time with Dad.
Playing a reuninon show with Jason.
Sitting on our corner hill--watching a lightning show and listening to the Cubs with Dad.


HUGE DISAPPOINTMENTS
Cubs swept in playoffs.
Chris one-on-one.
Flooding at the station on June 7th.
Election day.
Scrape up Dad's family van in downtown parking garage.
(Busted water pipe at transmitter on December 7th.)
(Kyle Orton hurt; Bears' season derailed.)
(My PEX review at Grainger.)

Saturday, November 1, 2008

LORD HELP US ALL (PRE-ELECTION THOUGHTS)

I keep expecting to wake up from this bad dream. Surely I don’t actually live in a country that is considering putting Barack Obama in the White House. I keep waiting for someone to tell me that this was all just a social experiment, and that the real Presidential candidates will be unveiled soon.

I am waiting for Barack to finally admit that yes, even he realizes he’s horribly inadequate for the job—and that this whole thing was just a study being performed by someone who wanted to see how the nation would react to a complete hack candidate for President.

Because this can’t be real.

I am in awe at the number of people refusing to open their eyes to what a dangerous man this is.

Here’s the thing I find the funniest of all: The sheep-like mentality of the Obama followers. I was raised in a sheltered home, I’ll admit. When I went off to grad school, I found that those of us who were conservative were looked down upon and made to feel inferior because we were still “clinging” to the core values with which we were raised. Those in the learning community who had “broken free” and had taught themselves how to think for themselves naturally ended up on the other side of the fence.

Because it was impossible to actually be a bright mind, and still be a conservative. You can’t be enlightened. You can’t be a forward thinker. You can’t truly decide for yourself, and still end up holding to the same strong values with which you were raised.

Those who were still practicing conservatives were simpletons, naïve, couldn’t think for themselves, and were just spoon-fed.

So…imagine my surprise to see just how willfully and blindly all of those brilliant minds are bowing down at the feet of the most unqualified candidate in history. If there’s one quality that can be found common amongst Obama supporters, it is their refusal to actually think about the situation. Simply put, his name isn’t Bush, and that’s good enough for them.

And so the herd falls in line behind Obama. No matter how unelectable he proves himself to be. No matter how many scary and dangerous realities emerge about this guy. No matter how many scarring things he says about the American people. No matter how many radical ideas he spews. No matter how many times he flat out lies about his past… No matter how many times he flip flops and contradicts himself. He’s not Bush and that’s reason enough for these people to turn their country over to him.

Suddenly all these people who had supposedly taught themselves to think outside the box, are just closing their eyes and running mindlessly into the popular crowd.

And as McCain said of Obama in the second debate; that’s not only naïve, that’s downright dangerous.

And so the tables have turned.



A few years ago if you had told me that the most liberal member of the Senate…with just days in office under his belt, with an extremely shady background and no leadership experience would even have a prayer of getting elected here, I would say Lord help us all.

And that’s what I’m saying now. If you are a believer in fasting and prayer, and are not doing both in earnest at this time, that is irresponsible in my mind. At first I just didn’t like the guy because he was grossly liberal. But now when I consider the vulnerable state in which a guy with ideas like his might put our country, my dislike turns to genuine concern. This is historic stuff. Dangerous doesn’t even begin to do this guy justice.

You might hate George W. Bush (and most everyone does by now), but if there’s one thing that can be said for him to this day…our enemies know where he stands. The same could be said for John McCain. Barack? Now that’s a crapshoot. That’s a big guessing game. This is not the day and age for such a risk. Anything but.

I am not a good political mind. I've never claimed to be. But when someone else gives voice to what I wish I could say eloquently, I can recognize that. I am good at that. So I will be quoting several people here.

Derek and I were chatting online one night about how perplexed we both were that this guy even had a shot. Otherwise clear-thinking people…even well-intentioned Christian people—some people I look up to, just refusing to be rational about this man. This was his theory:

“… do you believe that Obama supporters have a 'faith' in Barack that far surpasses the normal support of candidates we've seen in our lifetimes? Here's my thought: there's several groups of people (particularly those in higher education, African-Americans, and guilt-ridden white people) who have anticipated a viable black candidate for a long time. There's also a group of people (particularly college students and younger Democrats who came of age under Bush) who want desperately to be a part of the generation who affects major change.

These forces have combined to turn the candidacy of Obama into a Messiah-like coronation that borders on cultish. And Obama is smart. He knows how to talk to them. There's a synergism to it all that bothers me.”

And I couldn’t agree more. There’s something at work here. Here’s a young politician who has risen to power quickly on the strength of a couple powerful speeches. He has incredible power over people. He claims to be a Christian but has very questionable character and practices. He’s a smooth talker. He says a lot of nothing. A lot of pie in the sky ideas. And people are falling all over themselves for him.

How many more scenes do you want to see of people downright weeping at his events? Thousands of Germans bowing down before him? A children’s choir singing songs of worship to him? A youth group’s creepy chantings about a better day with Barack? How many more of these chilling scenes do people need to see before they come to their senses? There’s something fishy going on here. He’s got a grip on people, and it’s anything but healthy.

At the Saddleback forum he stuttered, he stammered, he refused to answer questions directly because it cut against him politically.

And the fact that Obama survived the Reverend Wright fiasco says it all. The media made a MUCH bigger deal about Sarah Palin’s wardrobe than the maniac who fed Obama’s spiritual brain for 20 years. The fact that I live in a country that is willing to turn a blind eye to a guy who sat under that kind of “ministry” is enough to make me want to puke.

And as Derek emailed to me: “True or false: Friends of Barack Obama's late mother, who Obama claims shaped his political philosophy, say that she harbored Communist sympathies… True or false: Obama's father was a Muslim, his mother an atheist/agnostic, and his sister is married to a Buddhist.” (The answer to Derek’s “true or false” game is always true, by the way…)

Oh but there is one. I have found one person willing to think this through. One of the biggest democrats I met at Baylor recently wrote this on his facebook page: “(I fear) the coming defenseless, socialist, abortion-on-demand society.” Another day he wrote, “(I refuse) to be complicit as a taxpayer in a taxpayer funded abortion procedure, which would be the case if Obama wins and passes the Freedom of Choice Act.”

This guys gets it.

Another guy I knew at Baylor wrote: “I have never heard someone talk so well and much and never say anything at all.”

And you know what I fear on a personal level? The return of this stinkin’ “Fairness” Doctrine. As someone who makes my living in radio, the Fairness Doctrine would flat out destroy my radio station. There’s a reason why people like Rush Limbaugh, Sean Hannity, and Mark Levin are insanely popular. And there’s a reason why Al Franken was exposed for the hack he is and went off the air. Because conservative talk radio works. Obama and Pelosi could easily destroy the large amount of momentum that our radio station has right now with their attempt at “fairness.” Makes me sick This country could turn into something very very ugly. Something that doesn’t even resemble itself.

Oh my Obama complaints are many. I thought initially I would try to document all the reasons this guy is completely unelectable. But the list has grown so extensively in recent days that I’m just exhausted. But the sing-songy condescending tone of voice he uses...his absolute inability to speak off teleprompter... I heard someone say that Obama's a piece of art and not an actual presidential candidate. Well put.

Even if ONE of these (well-documented) character issues is even close to being accurate, that should be enough said. The fact that there are dozens and that they keep piling on, well... You tell me.

The truth is, the media hand-picked this guy. They picked him over Hillary and they got their wish. Now they’ve already decided he’s beaten McCain, and I’ve already seen that it’s crushing the spirits of some conservatives.

If these poll projections keep people from the voting booth, that is brutal. The media would have you to think it is a done deal. It is anything but. And I’m sure the exit polls will show an Obama landslide early Tuesday as well. Just like they did for John Kerry in 2004. Let not your heart be troubled. Vote. A thousand times I say, vote. The media has decided this race. The American people have not. Yet.

With all that said, I’ll leave you with this paragraph I found:

“Obama/Biden is a very dangerous choice for our country...he is a very attractive candidate and a lot of people have fallen for the hype...his stances are obviously VERY liberal which isn't the most awful thing in the world, but it when it comes to moral issues, he seems to be light years away from where I am...I could never vote for someone like that. He is a big government guy, which I have never been a fan of, and he is all about raising taxes, which is not the answer to most economical issues...including our current economic state. I hope people are educated enough to know the candidates for who they really are and not how good of a show they can put on. 75k people in a stadium is a pretty amazing thing for a politician...but it absolutely does not mean that he is the right person to lead our country during some of its toughest times. At the end of the day, God knows and His plan will come to pass...I am not one to over-spiritualize anything, but we need God's will for this election...now more than ever.”

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Oh...and because I couldn't have said it any better myself, please see this email exchange between two of my friends from undergrad:

"Am I the only one befuddled by what I'm seeing around me? Has there ever been a groundswell of stupidity in the history of our country that could even come close to rivaling this one? I have grown weary of the sentiments expressed (in an Obama video), but I am perhaps more exasperated by the otherwise sane people I know that each day add to those already lined up with palm branches ready. Colin Powell? Christian leaders, including Anderson University's current Spiritual Emphasis Week speaker? Some of my very good, and otherwise analytically sound friends?

The hope and joy in these peoples' eyes are the marks of those who believe themselves to be, in some way, on the cusp of redemption. I believe there is no more fundamental common denominator in the human experience than the longing for redemption; it spans cultures and historical epochs. It drives people to do things both good and bad, and has been wielded as a weapon more than 'religion' or perhaps even 'fear'. Barack Obama, and any human for that matter, is completely incapable of providing the kind of significant redemption each of us is searching for. To believe otherwise is not simply an abandonment of logic, but also the stubborn expression of infantile faith in something far more fanciful than the Creator of the universe being born in a manger to a virgin...

Are any of you feeling even a tenth of the frustration I am right now?"

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And the reply...

"I agree with your assessment and frustration. To the best of my knowledge, America has never had a candidate with the ability to turn the minds of so many to such mush and who has such control over so many. If that is cult-like language, so be it. Here's what worries me if Obama gets elected. If he screws up, will it even be acknowledged? Are the viewpoints of people like us going to be marginalized by the voices we'll be hearing? Will a "fairness doctrine" be re-enacted since many liberal opinion voices can't fairly succeed in an arena that requires large numbers of viewers and/or listeners? One of the New Mexico senators brought it up just today. The reaction to Obama has turned NBC, CBS, ABC, and CNN into the closest thing I've ever seen to state TV in America. We thought the media was biased in the past. As it turns out, we hadn't seen anything. In my most worried moments, I wonder what happens if such a doctrine silences some dissenting voices, while the pro-left voices shape the conversation for a next political generation..."

Sunday, September 21, 2008

Count Me Out

Sunday, September 21, 2008

Count me out of the group of Cub fans who thought this season was going to be handed to them. Count me out of the group who thought that September would simply be a victory lap. Count me out of those who weren't greatly concerned about some aspects of this team--even when they were 35 games over. Count me out of the guys who got all excited when the Cubs had built up an eye-popping record at the end of a home game-heavy first couple of months.

I've always prided myself in being an even-keel Cub fan. And I think that has come particularly in handy this year. Sure those gaudy records atop the MLB standings all season long have been nice. But not comfortable. Never comfortable.

And while you're at it, count me out of the woe-is-us Cub fan crowd. No I don't believe in curses. No I don't believe in wait 'til next year. And no I don't believe in "this is our year." I just like Cubs baseball. It's that simple. Some people stop following their baseball teams once they're eliminated or if they're not having a winning season. Those aren't baseball fans. Baseball fans care 162 times. They don't take a day off. Even meaningless games in September. When the Cubs were a 60-win team...I listened/watched to the end. If the Cubs were to clinch the division early this year, I'll watch the meaningless games before the playoffs begin.

Count me out of the group waiting for the other shoe to drop. The national media is talking of this antsy, paranoid Cub fan--apparently half-covering his eyes, afraid to look. Who is this guy? I just like to watch the games and root for them. Count me out of those who think a choke is waiting to happen. And count me out of those wondering how they'll let us down this year. I'm only in my 20s. I don't know a hundred years of suffering. I don't even know decades of suffering for that matter. I don't know Leon Durham. I don't know 1969. I know no goat. All I know is that Dad raised me to enjoy Cubs baseball. All I know is a franchise that hasn't won it all, but has been reasonably successful since I've been alive. A playoff appearance this season would mean three in the last six years. I know a lot of teams who would take that in a second. So no...I'm not apprehensive about what's around the corner. If they lose, they lose. But this is the '08 team. Its own roster. What does Steve Bartman have to do with Ryan Theriot? How does Geovany's Soto success or failure relate at all to Alex Gonzalez? It doesn't. This is this group. This season.

A Reds' TV announcer said the other that this run to the playoffs might not be the cakewalk that all Cub fans thought it would be. Is the guy insane? (Well...I know he is because earlier he had called the fans who had taken the time to travel to Cincinnati for the weekend "fairweather fans." I know this...if there's one fan base in the entire scope of sport that can NEVER be called fairweather, it would be Cub fans.) But anyway...any Cub fan I talked to who actually knew anything about baseball knew this thing might come down to the final week.

Anyone who actually glanced at this September schedule knew that--the Cubs had no choice but to get out to that outrageous start! September was FULL of games on the road against teams with winning records. So no, I didn't get ahead of myself when the Cubs went out and did what they absolutely had to do...win almost all of their home games early. I've been dreading the September series at Shea Stadium all year. I'm the guy who's said you better have at least a three game lead over Milwaukee heading to Miller park the final weekend of the season. Just to be safe.

But also...with the Cubs' recent slide and offensive woes...how is it a surprise? This is a team that has flirted with the best record all season long--without guys having good seasons. Carlos Zambrano has been hurt. Twice. Alfonso Soriano has been hurt. Twice. And his numbers are way down this year. Aramis Ramirez' production is not nearly what it should be. Derrek Lee is going for the world record in hitting into double plays and only has 19 HRs. Jim Edmonds is hitting in the .230s. Kosuke Fukudome is so bad he can't even stay in the lineup. Anybody who is just now starting to get concerned about the holes in this roster hasn't been paying much attention.

So...provided that the Cubs make it to the playoffs, I won't be surprised at anything. I do think they're better than in 2007, so hopefully they don't get swept again. When they got swept out of the playoffs 3-0 by Arizona last year everyone was beside themselves. How could they choke like that?!?!? Really? Choke? That was only an 85-win team last year! They had a lot of three game losings streaks during the course of the year. In fact, the Marlins (the 66-90 Marlins, by the way) swept them in the final week of the season--games the Cubs felt like they had to win!!! So why wouldn't the division-winning Diamondbacks be able to do the same?

Someone remarked to me the other day--discussing the Cubs good season so far. "I just hope they don't choke in the playoffs." I was like...well good teams beat good teams every year in the playoffs. Baseball is a weird game. The playoffs are always a crapshoot. Every year there are seven good teams that get sent packing from the postseason. Who's to say? It's baseball. Anyone can beat anyone. The Mariners even beat the Angels this year. It's baseball. Especially in a best of five.

You just want to get to the postseason. That's the tough part. Just get there. After that, you gotta hope the ball bounces your way a few times here and there. But once you reset those records at 0-0, nothing's guaranteed. I'll take my chances with Ryan Dempster and Geovany soto and Mark DeRosa and Carlos Marmol. But win or lose, this group has accomplished a ton of special things during the course of a grueling baseball season.